6 The source of bad-mouth to friends itch

I have a friend told me similar thoughts, she said, when she heard from friends such as" there is something not know should say to you ... ..." " The thing I also heard it, and tell you that you can not get angry ... ..." Such words, her mind will immediately sounded the alarm, make a prompt decision to back a sentence:" you still give me shut up!" The answer is very wise, because once she allowed her friend itchy mouth in front of her attack, perhaps to make something unexpected incidents.
Of course, Madagascar Agate Beads this is only because" itchy mouth" caused by the deterioration of the relationship between factors of friends. In addition, there are several factors worth attention:
A friend is behind on personal hygiene random comment. For example, scurf and not always wash hair, such as osmidrosis, such as athlete's foot, such as pajamas to wear is a quarter do not change. Even if this is true, as a friend, you are not trying to help him get rid of the bad habits, but behind him that comment, and shame what two things?
Two is the unauthorized license to friends, friends who revealed age or income. Age is often young women's secret, income is a rich man 's secret. These are not to be mentioned, you meet a person" itchy mouth", the friend of all these things to the leak, not exposed to the friend's privacy?
Three is the trifles and friends gossip, playing patience, and at a dig at, to speak to the abusable, not only hurt the feelings of friends, but also damage the image of.
" Itchy mouth", friends turn source is -- you are fortunate enough to be not listed here, or was killed by me in?
To the danger -- can settle down mouth
Many people of good eloquence of understanding has been in a misunderstanding: eloquent people are extroverts, but not eloquent people mostly introverted. And I just can't agree on this kind of understanding. I have a good understanding of the utterance should be established based on two basic points : one is the understanding of things, the two is the language's expression. These two basic points available, introverts, if not more, but" one word" can" flat", the phrase "" can" Quietus"; while the extrovert if do not have these two basic points, will continuously play lips, that is not the fool, talk more?
Extroverts tend to suffer from" itchy mouth " problem, they can't stop talking, but difficult and pearls beads, and introverted person usually relatively silent, but silence does not mean that the person must not speak. For example, Reagan is within the president? But during his presidency, in charge of the United States of America inside and outside the government affairs can be arranged in good order. And so he at the Harvard University in two speeches, Bo to the world. Who says the introverted population can not come?
Of course, the character relatively outgoing person mouth is also relatively itch -- this is the fact that does not dispute, but there is a premise, that is he must have" good itch" eloquence competence. Gemstone Beads For example, when Clinton graceful bearing to the Beijing University speech, each student's tongue are as long as the knife, but he could not stop a jumping to answer fluently, do not have and who had bit teeth cut tooth. It is, in the face of all Americans can still had the presence of mind to show off one's eloquence, so some students doll what!
From the wrist, down to the commom people, I think the world is Chinese best" itchy mouth", while the Chinese character is much more introverted than Westerners -- how to understand it?